As a U.C.L.A. graduate, Kiraly is well-versed in the teachings of John Wooden, the university’s legendary basketball coach, and the Wooden idea that paying for a team gives you an opportunity to be a part of something larger than yourself.
His assistant coach, Marv Dunphy, is fluent in Wooden’s methods, too; he spent hours interviewing the coach before his death in 2010. The team he and Kiraly exemplifies the methods they learned: flexibility in service of stability; moving fast but also taking your time; a willingness to relish in small gestures, and a recognition that athletes are humans and not robots.
Kiraly barely mentioned his team’s talent and athleticism when he talked about it at the Games. Instead, he has spoken with pride of the atmosphere of “trust, accountability and democracy” the women have created for themselves.
Foluke Akinradwedo, a veteran middle blocker, said the team made a conscious decision in recent months to verbalize its emotions about the tension inherent in its quest for gold rather than run away from it.
“We allow ourselves to say to each other, ‘I’m nervous,’” Akinradwedo said after the Americans’ quarterfinal win over the Dominican Republic. “We say we’re nervous, and then we get after it.”