“Sometimes, he doesn’t remember my name, the kids’ names, the grandkids’ names, but someone from baseball can come in and they can start talking about playoff or World Series games from years ago, and he can tell you who was pitching in the third inning,” said Pam Cox, who has been married to Bobby Cox for almost 43 years. “Baseball was his life, and he lived for that.”
Cox last visited the ballpark in 2020, when he watched a game from McGuirk’s suite in a stadium kept empty by the coronavirus pandemic. Now, though, Snitker only sees him at home, where they sit in recliners and reminisce over games, or contemplate analytics or the wildness of playoff schedules. Snitker, who offers a hug and shake of Cox’s left hand and an “I love you,” does almost all of the talking, because he very often must.
“I just get emotional sometimes watching,” said Pam Cox, who said that John Schuerholz, Atlanta’s general manager during Cox’s tenure, and Leo Mazzone, the pitching coach in Atlanta’s heyday, also visit often. “It’s just like watching your father and son bonding.”
In the immediate afterglow of Atlanta’s victory over Milwaukee in a division series, McGuirk said, Snitker was in the clubhouse, mapping out a plan to visit Cox the next day with a load of postseason hats and shirts. He had already stopped by earlier in the week on an off-day in the series.