Instead Wallace, who has acknowledged having bouts of depression, said he had sought the help of professionals as well as surrendered to his fiancée’s sunny disposition. Carter told him he was often too self-aware and negative heading into a race.
What Wallace needed was a return to his roots in junior racing when, as a 9- and 10-year-old, he didn’t understand that some of his white competitors and their families were displeased by the presence of an athlete who did not fit the prevailing demographic. Wallace’s mother is Black, and his father is white.
“I was too young to understand it,” he said. “All I knew is that they did not like me winning races. It made me want to come back and win more races.”
Wallace took Asher, adopted a year ago, to the stage for photos after his victory for a good reason. Asher is the kind of distraction he can feel good about.
“He’s been a blessing,” Wallace said. “It’s been a lot of fun watching him grow up.”
Wallace said he would not shrink from the activism that first brought him to the attention of casual sports fans. His “Live to be Different” foundation aims to support individuals in need of educational, medical and social assistance.
Wallace knows he has an expanding platform and believes he has a universal message.
“Be a leader,” he said. “Be good to your brothers and sisters.”
He will turn 28 on Friday, a birthday he plans to spend quietly at home with his family. No media. No sponsor obligations. Just time to think about what success looks like, whether he is driving in circles or changing the way people think.
“It takes people. It takes partners,” Wallace said. “It takes a lot of patience.”